How much does the way or place matter?

whats the difference?

 

      There are so many ways of meeting people, and so many places of meeting our true love. But what difference does it makes meeting them at the gym while spotting each other, at a cafe when one drops the coffee on the others shirt, falling from a tree or at the streets, at a wedding, online, through a friend, so many ways and only one person to share you life. If it someone that big why should the place matter, why do we care if we met them on a dating page, or through messenger, why do we care if it was the most romantic thing, like I was falling so I closed my eyes waiting for the pain instead I felt the most comfortable smell and when I opened my eyes, there they were the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen sparkling with the sun, or an heroic act of how our life was saved by that someone.

     We are always searching for that story, that special beginning. But what does a beginning have to matter if the context of the whole is and will be better. If there is only one person who will change your perspective of perfection why cant that person change the perception of the way and place?

   If there is such a thing as love at first sight, why can the memory of how they met be erase or elapsed by how your world is moving. Its not an insignificant moment because its what brought two people together, but still the point should not be who it happened but that it happened, that your life is changed for the better and your happier. is that not the point?