Is there a perfect place?

 

How much does the way or place matter?

whats the difference?

 

      There are so many ways of meeting people, and so many places of meeting our true love. But what difference does it makes meeting them at the gym while spotting each other, at a cafe when one drops the coffee on the others shirt, falling from a tree or at the streets, at a wedding, online, through a friend, so many ways and only one person to share you life. If it someone that big why should the place matter, why do we care if we met them on a dating page, or through messenger, why do we care if it was the most romantic thing, like I was falling so I closed my eyes waiting for the pain instead I felt the most comfortable smell and when I opened my eyes, there they were the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen sparkling with the sun, or an heroic act of how our life was saved by that someone.

     We are always searching for that story, that special beginning. But what does a beginning have to matter if the context of the whole is and will be better. If there is only one person who will change your perspective of perfection why cant that person change the perception of the way and place?

   If there is such a thing as love at first sight, why can the memory of how they met be erase or elapsed by how your world is moving. Its not an insignificant moment because its what brought two people together, but still the point should not be who it happened but that it happened, that your life is changed for the better and your happier. is that not the point?

The kind hearted

What happened to those people?

The rare kind of the kind hearted, are they gone or hiding?

 

 

     What happened to that kind of people, the little kid who helps an old citizen cross a street , or the man who helps a girl without any second thoughts. In this world of lonesome minds still live people around us, I believe, hiding in fear of being hurt. Those kind souls who just want to help but are afraid to, because they are fragile. In this world we push those people aside, walk over them and take advantage of those big hearts. They mean no harm, they mean no hate they just want to help.

     What happened to those who just wanted to help without thinking of rewards, or just of the rewards of a smile and a “thanks, have a good day”, to know you have change and brighten someones day. Even now a day you say “good day” or “good afternoon” and you get no reply, nothing. I know there are few of them who still greet you on their way to work, or an elevator, or even the gentleman who opens a door for a lady, a kid or an old man, so there is hope. But still I wonder whats happening to us? to the world?

 

 

Rising Talent (True love kiss)

   

       Well I like to write, it is one of my hobbies. People often called it poetry but I just call it life, its things I see in life, things that goes trough my life, its life it self. Well I don’t like or I don’t know how to talk about it so here one of the many things I have written, I hope you enjoy it and comment on it. It is called True love kiss.

True Love Kiss

 

We are all waiting, we are all expecting

It’s that moment; it’s that instant where everything stops

When you can’t hold it anymore

It’s that first time, it’s that first kiss

It all starts with a glimpse

A catch of the eye, eye and eye lock together

In a forever eternity and that’s when you know

Your true love has taken form

The first time your hands touch, you can feel it

Even when they are still apart

When they are reaching for each other

You can feel it, the tingling sensation that travels your body

And reaches your heart, a spark, your heart in the hand

The singing sensation, the forever dance, where you and I will dance

Like the burning log reaches the sky, it’s the glowing ashes dancing with the wind

It is my heart touching yours

The insane feeling, the insane desperation of forever love

Your body and mine are reaching for each other

And you just want to let go, let your body take control

Cuss your heart its screaming GO!

When you know it, when you let it

When it happens you just know you will never let go

It’s the work of destiny

It’s the help of fate, it just need a little faith

And you close the deal with the touch of the lips

The most powerful of all

Your true loves kiss

 

-2006-

 

   Well that’s once of them I hope you enjoyed it, if you want to read more I have a couple more here in this link, there are some in Spanish too.

http://www.talentdatabase.com/channels/20-Writing/profiles/1057701-Zarishi?utm_source=member_badge&utm_medium=html
 

Times up…

Do you believe in card reading?

numbers, astrological signs, premonitions, future reading or things of the sort?

 what if they are real? if not?

     When I was in high school a friend of mine used to go on saying he could read cards, and he did for a few. One day I went to him and asked him if he would do it for me, if he would read them for me. I don’t remember all the things he said, but the thing I never forgot was what he said about love. He told me “You will never find a relationship, you will find something close, one someone close but after that, there is nothing more”. Till today I have never have a relationship, as I wrote before I don’t settle for less of what  I dream, of my high expectations.

    But what if my times up…? What if I already wasted that someone close, that close to relationship? what if its all gone. Sometimes (mostly when I see chick flicks) I think that my time for meeting that forever love, was to be in high school, where I should have met my high school sweetheart. Maybe I am over thinking this, like always. But I keep dating and I don’t find that forever love… that breath away thing people talk about. I cant find to find the one who will keep me in a magic spell, the one and only one for me. The more time that goes the more I feel that my time was up long ago and that my high school friend was right. I am still expecting to be prove wrong… but till then will I always feel that my times up?

Have you ever felt that your times up?

   

Suit up

     Well I am working with Primerica (its under the umbrella of citi group) and well because its buisness and financial they have a dress code which you have to go to the meetings in dress cloth and a tie or a suit. So I wanted to have a my very own suit. It was a nice day to go shopping at the largest mall here Plaza las Americas. I must say I have an expensive taste in cloth, and I don’t care much looking at the price tags. Anyways I went all around the place, and I couldnt find one I loved, the one made for me, I went to Brooks Brothers where I found some shirts and the tie, It was funny because the guy helping me was flirting and  (well till then I didnt know how to do a tie knot so he helped me) so when he was doing the knot I stare at him and got all red… well it was funny jejej , then I went to the Banana, Gap, Armani (which I hate the store… its just not for me) and still no sign of the ideal suit… then I found it, I was sitting down thinking where could I go, then I looked up and there it was Zara. I always said that they made the most awesome suits ever, why did I though of it before, there I found the suit. I must say it was a fun day and its always nice to go shopping.

     I believe I am gorgeous in a suit… here are some pics I took when I was on my way to a meeting. Its the first time I put on a suit since… wow I dont remember when was the last time,not even for my high school graduation. Meh well I was on my way to a meeting and I made my mom take some pics of me.

Here are some of the pics:

 

 

Proud parent of a gay son… Gay parents of a proud son.

What would you do if your kid was gay?

Would you care, support and love your kid? or would you forget all about that kid?

   I was talking about it with my mom… and she said to me “I dont mind a gay son”, she let me know she will always be proud of me no matter what, no matter what I will always be her son. It was nice, its reassuring hearing your parents tell you that, it lets you know you will never fail them, it gives you a feeling of hope. I am greatful to have a mother like her, to know she will always stand by my side, to know she will always love me. I know many parents of homosexuals who deny their existence, parents who abuse of their kids, physically and mentaly, just because he or she is gay. If you think about it, imagine how homosexuals would feel even at their home, we could use the abuse of black people and racism, they could feel unsecured on the streets but never at their homes, or feel fear of their family (of course there is always the exception but its not the norm), homosexual feel fear everywhere. I am not here to judge thous who are homophobic or parents who deny their kids, but instead of thinking of the shame, or God’s wrath, instead of judging others I suggest start thinking of how the others feel, start thinking that God is the only one allow to judge. God said love each other and dont judge maybe we should start letting people live their life and helping thous in need.

  But as we kept on talking about homosexuality, love, parent ship and other stuff, it came the topic of gays and being parents. She told me gays wouldn’t be able to take care of kids, thats not normal, and it would create some sort of emotional turnboil that will affect the kids. And well she is human and I mean wow a mother who would not care about a homosexual son it is a blessing but it kind of shocked me, you dont care if I am gay, bi or a transsexual but you do care if a Gay person wants to have kids? why?. She kept on trying to explain to me how she though it would affect the kid, having same sex parents, looking at those kind of lifestyle. But I think ”Dont every marriage, single parents, homosexual, heterosexual, PEOPLE at the end, everyone has problems?” I mean in some way or the other life it self marks us and affect us. Everywhere and every kind of person has trouble and they still marry and have kids. Here is something I found doing research on Gay parenting: Why gay marriage should be illegal.

1. Homosexuality is not natural, much like eyeglasses, polyester, and birth control are not natural.
2. Heterosexual marriages are valid because they produce children. Infertile couples and old people cannot get legally married because the world needs more children.
3. Obviously gay parents will raise gay children because straight parents only raise straight children.
4. Straight marriage will be less meaningful, since Britney Spears’s 55-hour just-for-fun marriage was meaningful.
5. Heterosexual marriage has been around for a long time, and it hasn’t changed at all: women are property, Blacks can’t marry Whites, and divorce is illegal.
6. Gay marriage should be decided by the people, not the courts, because the majority-elected legislatures, not courts, have historically protected the rights of minorities.
7. Gay marriage is not supported by religion. In a theocracy like ours, the values of one religion are always imposed on the entire country. That’s why we only have one religion in America.
8. Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people makes you tall.
9. Legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior. People may even wish to marry their pets because a dog has legal standing and can sign a marriage license.
10. Children can never succeed without both male and female role models at home. That’s why single parents are forbidden to raise children.
11. Gay marriage will change the foundation of society. Heterosexual marriage has been around for a long time, and we could never adapt to new social norms because we haven’t adapted to cars or longer lifespans.
12. Civil unions, providing most of the same benefits as marriage with a different name are better, because a “separate but equal” institution is always constitutional. Separate schools for African-Americans worked just as well as separate marriages will for gays & lesbians.

          (From: http://grove.ufl.edu/~ggsa/gaymarriage.html )

     I think homosexual parents would do better than heterosexual, because they give it for granted, something they think they could do when ever, it is something that maybe they dont appreciate the joy and bless of being parents, thats why they abuse and dont take good care of their kids. I believe gay parents would be grateful and appreciate much more the bless of having kids something heterosexual have had for granted, at the end if a homosexuals have kid,which most of them will want to do, they are not gay because they want to avoid getting pregnant or getting someone pregnant. This is another point people think about, just because they are homosexual DONT mean they dont want a family and kids, if they have kids is because they really want to, they want to give love to a child, to be able to be there for them, to be able to love them and make them better people for this world. To support and to love, what more reason to be a parent that that.

For information on studies of homosexual parenting and how it affects the kids, here they have a bit of information http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_parenting#Fitness_of_parents or do some search on google there is alot of information.