Do you believe in love at first sight?
To know you want to spend the rest of your life with that person…
How much time does one person really need to know, this is who I want to be with, this is who I want to spend my free time with… this is who I want to get to know me.
Every time we date we pass judgment in the way they dress, talk and act. But there are sometimes that by even looking at them getting closer, you know this is not the one for you, of course there are times when we are stand corrected. Those rare persons who in their act manage to conquer all, to impress and surprise us with their actions. Do we need those actions to know this is it? Are there times that just a simple glance says it all?
Looking trough a crowded room and spotting that graceful person and you just know… the way your hand shakes when you are close and that simple glance that can make everyone disappear. Of course like Shakespeare once wrote “the course of true love never did run smooth”… when we find those moments when our hearts just want to burst out of our chest to find the other person does not feel the same or things that make it difficult… a difficult path for only those who persevere, its like a test of your love, how much will you do for that love?
Of course there are things that make love stronger, the simple acts of kindness, the simple acts that says it all or just the way they look at your eyes… where they can see no one but you. The things you get to share and the things you talk about… the way you stay connected to that person in a whole new level. All this is important to make something work, determination, perseverance and love. The true desire to conquer you, to protect and be protected… to feel safe with you, to feel at home with you.
I have always believed in true love… in love at first sight. But sometimes I wonder how accurate our perception can be, is it true love even when the other doesn’t feel the same… the hardest test of them all, to let go and see them go free.
I wonder if I have spoted that first sight… I wonder about love. Is there a thing like a mistake in love at first sight?


